Avoid infidelity – a common reason for divorce is infidelity. There ARE things that you can do in your marriage to make sure it doesn’t happen to you.If you work outside of the home, keep your coworkers from becoming close friends. Getting too personal with your coworkers allows the possibility of infidelity, even though it may be unintentional.Very personal issues should only be talked about with your own family. By your opening up to someone outside of your family, you won’t be able to avoid infidelity as well.Keep physical contact at bay. Don’t hug your friends all of the time, this may cause a spark between the two of you one day. If you haven’t seen a friend in a long time, a hug is fine. Do your very best to save your kisses and hugs for where it is really needed, and appreciated – for your spouse, and you children, if you have them.You have to be able to talk to your partner, or spouse. Your lines of communication must always be open, and you have to be able to talk to each other openly, about anything.If you can’t talk to your spouse, you will be led to talk about your problems with someone else, and that will open the doors to infidelity. Cheating isn’t purely physical – a lot of times, cheating is emotional.It is done when one spouse feels like they can’t talk to the other, without being ridiculed. They HAVE to talk to someone, so they choose a friend instead. The best way to avoid infidelity in your relationship is to let your spouse know that they can talk to you, about anything.
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